Auntie

It is an honor and a privledge for me to be able to share some memories and thoughts about my beloved and adored aunt. As I was told, "Auntie"got  her name when my sister Bonnie first spoke and could not pronounce "Aunt Enid". Auntie she became and Auntie she remained. My Auntie was one of the most influential people in my life. Through the years growing up, our families spent much time together. Our Sundays spent in Spring Valley and then Pomona were among my fondest memories as a child. The Siegel home was such a warm, loving and nurturing place to be. What wonderful days filled with love, laughter- and of course Auntie's chicken and Aunties rice!! Secretly, I always wished that I was growing up in THAT house.

 

I have such vivid memories of the day that Lisa and Jane were born. I was on my parents bed when the call came through- My Uncle Larry was almost incoherent - not one but TWO girls!!!! I had never experienced such joy before.

 

As I got older and became an adult, Auntie became my friend and confidante (as well as the second mother we always joked she was). Always there, whether to give advice or  just listen, she always had the time for me. It almost seemed that she was just sitting by that telephone waiting for my call. I never remember Auntie cutting me short or even having to call me back. She was always there for me-  with an open ear and a more open heart. Never judgemental, always loving and assuring.

 

How fortunate you all were to have my Auntie as your Meemaw. She was so proud of all of your accomplishments, big and small. She always spoke to me of all of your ventures and successes. I am sure that you all must have such wonderful memories- savor them.

 

My last words are to my beloved uncle. I can't comprehend your loss. Your love was one that they write stories about. My daughter Melissa recently told me that her dream in life is to have a love and marriage as true and as beautiful as yours and Auntie's was. How lucky you were to have had that love.

 

I love you all- Linda